Oh, I'll weigh in on the carpet vs. bare floors thing too. I wouldn't want to be with a man who was shaved. It would creep me out. I guess I like what I'm used to... hairy men. I have this thing about only being attracted to me who I find very "masculine"... and for me masculine = not too concerned about grooming of any kind. I like them to be decently hygienic, but not too concerned about their appearance. A guy who uses styling products on his hair or wears cologne is a turn-off for me and I would be turned off in the same way by a guy waxing off his body hair. I like men au naturel.
As for myself, I keep myself closely groomed with a depilatory (I do the landing strip). I like that better than ungroomed -- just feels cleaner or something -- so I feel more comfortable (and sensitive) when I'm... um... receiving.
I did the fully bare thing once, but didn't like how it looked or felt. It wasn't for me. To each his (or her) own, though.