Well, there's no real ''rule" about how many risky behaviors you're allowed to have. Many people have many risky behaviors. My risky and/or manic behaviors have included: promiscuity and bad relationships with men, excessive phone and online sex, alcoholic drinking, heavy cigarette smoking (five packs a day at one time), bad spending habits/constant debts/stealing, rages and violent behaviors, harassing and/or stalking people, and either starving myself or overeating; I am currently on the verge of morbid obesity--but when I started on PC, I was too thin.

However, not everyone has the same behaviors. You obviously do not have a problem with money, so it does seem weird that your hubby would do that. I'm surprised that he's even able to do that with no signature from you or evidence of money problems. How was he even able to do that?