I really honestly try to take whatever steps needed to get better. But I really get annoyed at any "take responsibility" talks. Do MS patients or cancer patients get this talk? Who has the right to judge if I'm taking enough responsibility or not?

It is a catch 22----If I could do certain things I wouldn't be in therapy! I am asking for legitimate help and I'm given the pull up your bootstraps routine. What other illness gets this kind of Spartan reaction? I have an illness in the dark ages of treating said illness. Why am I being judged?