I know Growly, I hate it too, but I don't think it's ever going to change. It's something I try to apply radical acceptance to. I don't like having to take responsibility for all these things, but if I don't nobody will do it for me. In fact, they will lecture me and denigrate me for it. In their eyes, I am an adult and I should be able to do these things. I must try, even if I cannot, even if I am falling apart. I see no other option because I simply refuse to be so poorly regarded.