lol Selfy, I'm the exact opposite.. I say no automatically, just as a reflex sorta. I don't know why, I don't necessarily want to say no. Too bad we can't balance each other out!

I'm sure some are being friendly, but not everyone is just friendly lol and many men (and probably women) tend to be friendlier to people they find attractive in general. You shouldn't be so hard on yourself.. obviously they see something about you they like to at least want to engage in conversation!