Luce, I don't know what to answer often when my T asks why I feel good. She always asks what feels good when I hold her hand and I'm stuck! Then I come up with warm, safe, connected, and calm. So, I have to think about what feels good when I look into Ts eyes. Her eyes are pretty, so that's one reason. Mostly, I get a feeling of connection, and see that she cares and feels connected to me too. I've noticed that she is always looking at me during a session because when her glance moves to the clock near the end of a session, I notice! Also, since eye contact is still hard for me in real life, I feel good that I'm practicing with my T. I trust that it's safe to look in her eyes, and seeing that she's looking at me without judging me. Sorry for the longish answer! It made me think!