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Originally Posted by doyoutrustme
Have you tried to directly set boundaries with them? Nicely tell them that you simply cannot talk about this thing right now. Are you/your friends in therapy?
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I'm not in therapy. I think they have tried to go but they're not the best at self help/finding help when they need it which is why I guess they lash out and say awful things.
I don't know how well they'd react to me saying that though. I don't want them to feel like I'm abandoning them. If they got worse somehow without me I'd probably feel kind of responsible even if it isn't my responsibility.