Rainbow, I also wondered what my T's house was like and if it was better than mine, etc. These mirroring feelings really bothered me for awhile since I feel fairly secure outside of therapy - I rarely get jealous of others and feel pretty secure about myself.

I've been trying to have more lasting eye contact with others. And, because I tend to look away when I talk, I didn't realize how many of my friends maintain eye contact with me. I have told my H that I want better eye contact but I don't think either one of us is really trying. And, I'm not positive it would give me the same warm fuzzy feelings.