Yes i can totally relate. I'm so dumb about guys. I'm clueless about them and i'm 36 years old.One person i use to be friends would like stare at me. To the point it would kind of creeped me out. But in a weird way i was flattered. Because he is hot. Even though we are no longer friends.Because we got into a big argument early last year. I still catch him starting at me.Then i like this other guy at the moment and he is always wanting to give me hugs when he see's me. Even after i been jumping around at a concert and i'm sticky and my hair is a mess.A few times i have kind of backed away from him and he would ask me what's wrong.