Agree, l would blame parents if person is full of guilt or shame.
My parents told me everything wrong in their lives was my fault 'if it wasnt for YOU we'd be OK, its you that causes all the trouble in this house' They say.
I was five.
Used as a scapegoat, as someone they could dump all their s##t on. I felt embarrassed to exist I wanted to disappear. I truly believed, if l dissapeared the world would be a better place.
Like l asked to be born!
Selfcentred bast##ds.