its okay to be mad jinny. I understand it. Different people process it differently. But I think if you can use your anger to enact change in your community, legislation, or public views or attitudes towards it, then its truely useful. Actually even if your anger helps you process your own past its useful. I think its natural to want to punish them...especially given the severity of the incident there is low liklihood of rehabilitation imo. I dont want to debate about though. I'm only speaking of this particular instance of the ring and ages of children involved.