Hey, I'm relatively new here and have not read about your "Mean T" before, but this thread struck a chord with me.

I'm in really rough shape now for a number of reasons. But I believe this could have been avoided if not for the influence of a particular T who was, from the first visit: judgmental, sarcastic, interrupting, eye-rolling, self-absorbed...I could go on, but I think you get the picture.

I am still so mad at him and myself for trusting him. The ironic thing is that I actually enrolled in a different HMO and changed my primary care physician in order to meet with this particular T, based only on a simple web bio/profile.

I ask for references for an auto mechanic or a lawyer, you'd think I would do the same for something so much more important.