An acquaintance of mine who calls me a lot told me that she found out that she was codependent and now that she knows what that is, her problem is solved, no need for meetings or anything else. Trouble is she still has boundary problems and obsesses about people she's attracted to... Sometimes I dislike talking to her because she says graphic things without any warning and goes on and on about whomever she's attracted to and seems to neglect all else.

Other than that she's pretty cool.... I'd like to help her get rid of this problem.