I'm with you Masimo, though my marriage was only 10 years. I foresee disclosing some details about my marriage fairly early on, it seems reasonable to offer some explanation for why I'm divorced. I think my bs radar is much improved though - I was talking to a right piece of work on the phone at work today - I could tell instantly that he was not a guy I'd want to spend more than 5 minutes around. I have no idea why my boss couldn't see it before she contracted him...