I agree, have nothing to do with her. Try to explain to the child that for some people it's too hard to continue to see people who remind them of others and that it's not something he/she did but don't blame anyone. Emphasizing that it's nothing they did, no blame anywhere. It's just the way something's are.
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…Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. …...
Desiderata Max Ehrmann
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