I was told by a qauck I had bpd and to wondered at the hopelessness of my life.
Once I begun seeing this T she wouldn't talk labels. Said we can all find traits of something or other within ourselves.
So, we didn't focus on a negative.
But the psyche can have a new experiences with a skilled T which than changes your inner realm.
I don't think your T is very positive nor knowledgeable if that's his conclusion.