Facebook is the devil! I have a love/hate relationship with it all. I am on there mostly to see photos of my grandchildren. It is just a brag book and a site that causes lots of strife and arguments. It's a playground for pedophiles. I really hate it at times but stay for the reason above. It has also backfired on me several times when my son and daughter in law did things with the kids and had parties/get togethers and outings that I was not invited to.

Sounds like it may be best for you to stay away. I just don't think it is worth all the strife it causes.