I have made my peace with being single a long time ago. I have decided that single suits me best. It works for me. I actually find it quite liberating to be single! Then I can deal with my issues myself, and not having to go through the whole emotional mess of trying to make a relationship work. (trying to have a relationship has been stressful for me). Too bad we live in a culture that worships the idea of coupledom, and present being single as some kind of a bad thing. Which it isn`t at all...

P.S. Must add that I agree with Hooligans post below. Right now you are dealing woth a lot of pain and sadness, but eventually it will get better.