I'm sorry if I've upset anyone with this post. Seems like it's a sensitive topic. someone mentioned that they are a good person, they just have BPD. That makes me think of what my T always says. He often says "I think you are a good person. You care about others. You are doing a good job with your kids (they come in with me sometimes do I guess he sees how I interactvwith them and talk about them). He says I care about others and I have strong moral values. And he keeps saying I'm very strong and have a lot of resilience even though I've had a lot of things knock me down. So thank you for reminding me that I'm a sick person who wants to be well. And I'm glad T reminds me of the positives.