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Originally Posted by granite1
the fact that I don't want to be a mom any more or a wife or a friend . that I cant even feel anything from these people in my life .or that my life is goo and that I am ok. im spoiled and self absorbed. I want to be happy but I cant even when I seem to live a charmed life according to others. I really want to feel what others feel
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I highly doubt your therapist thinks, much less said, that you live a charmed life. You say you are horrible; your T is asking you to attempt to see things not so quite in those black and white terms.
It just struck me: you see yourself as ALL horrible--in very black and white terms--no possibility of gray area; you are trying to get your T to think about you in black and white when she sees you in all sorts of shades and is hoping you can recognize that within yourself.