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Originally Posted by healingme4me
Attracting men that have abandonment pasts brings a subconscious attraction to women that are naturally maternal. I see you mentioned daily communications with your own mom, that, too, factors in, in a strange way..
Even to leave this relationship, it'd stand to reason, guess what the next guy will have in their war chest?
It's better to sort it out now, figure out your boundaries, see if he willingly follows your lead.
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What a wise post!
Unfortunately it is too familiar and seems easier to keep trying to change unsuitable partners into something they are not rather than exploring our own needs and boundaries.
I am guilty of that myself that is why I refuse to coach Seeya how to fix her partner.
Sure we have to support each other in our desires to be the best we can be but I have hard time advising such young woman to devote her life to fixing unsuitable partners and now even their parents and their parenting skills!
Women do it all way too often. Rather than enjoying life and bettering themselves, they devote their precious lives to fixing others. Life is way too short for that. But to each its own.
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