I know how you feel about the substandard care. Not exactly the same situation but I did fire the first hospice that came round because they didn't seem to know what they were doing. The second wasn't much better they said my mom didn't need round the clock care and she clearly did she was days from passing away. I ended up saying that I was going to check myself into the hospital and they magically found 5 days of respite care available inpatient for her.

She passed during those 5 days or I'm not sure what I would have done. Care for the elderly in this country is atrocious like most health care. Even though we're getting to 8 months, the feelings are still raw and I miss her so much I can't even describe it.