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Old Apr 22, 2015, 04:12 PM
Cheskaox Cheskaox is offline
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Actually two years ago, We were at a bar together with my friends and my ex boyfriend friends where I had sexual intercourse with my ex that night and mind you I was single and allowed myself to do whatever I wanted as to I share what had happen that night to my ex best friend whose the one being a **** in this situation where he knew what I did that night and he brought it up again during an arguement. So I explained to him why is it a big deal now that it bugs him but not when I told him two years ago after two months of it happening. He got an attitude about me asking why he held and my hand because he said to me like I mentioned above "Are We unable to maintain a friendship?" I said were fine which I was and he got an attitude where he said stop asking about hand holding and ****ing. So I left him alone, you the know the rest above of me venting. I wasn't being pushy or clingy, I mean We would talk almost everyday or late at night which never bugged him at all cause I would ask. He cut me off during st. Patrick's day last month and said I'm an asshole cause I asked him what was I making up like what story and all, which lend me into deep depression. It pisses me off that he was flirting with me a lot last year around September and continued on in February until two weeks after my bday in February that he told me he was dating this girl and we gotta stop talking a certain way and all that jazz, so I said okay no problem then a week after he calls me ghetto booty. Which shocked me and he also added I don't know why you like **** for? I said for blah blah, then the hand holding and dry humping question I asked him about and he got an attitude then you know the rest from above.

He also cursed out my cousin badly.

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Originally Posted by NewLyfeForReal View Post
I have read your entire post OP. Let me see if I understand correctly (please correct me if I am wrong): 2 years ago he showed some physical interest in you but at the time you did not ask him to explain his actions as you said you were shy. At some point in the past you had a sexual relationship with a different guy and you said you feel bad about this. Recently, in the past couple months, when you finally asked your friend about why he showed physical interest in you 2 years ago he responded in a mean way. It sounds like you bringing this up bothered him so much that he wants you completely out of his life. Is he still dating the person he was dating in February? It sounds to me that he has found you a bit too pushy lately and he just wants to make it clear that he is not interested in a relationship with you. If he feels this way, as his friend, you need to respect his decision.
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