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Old Apr 22, 2015, 07:13 PM
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Excellent post Rose. Just excellent. I hope Seeya reads it in depth.

Personally I think no matter how mistreated you were by your parents there is no excuse in mistreating one's partner. Kicking her out? Making her sign her rights off? Now not spending time with her? Not communicating?

We can find hundreds of links to hundreds of articles but it doesn't dismiss the fact that he mistreats his wife. Frankly most women would never come back being kicked out. Or simply would never leave the house.

Honestly rather than fixing him and looking up articles about fixing him or asking him for therapy you might want to try to understand yourself. Why is this ok with you? How do you want to be treated? What's important for you? Go to therapy yourself first.

Bottom line focus on your needs right now. Not everything should be about him, you are important.



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