I think you are reading WAYYYYY to into that comment. ALL couples fight, whether it happens right away or a year or so once the lovey-dovey part of it calms down. Even if you see someones side you can be in a bad mood and he's hyper and won't stop talking and rambling on and talking loud and you have a horrible head ache. Most women would snap in that scenario. If I feel like you're hurting yourself, maybe from being passive aggressive and not letting your emotions free and bottling them up. There has been plenty of times me and my ex fiance forgot what the other has said. not because we dont care or love each other, but we are busy people with a lot on our minds. that's what happens in a grown up relationship sometimes lol