<font color="purple"> I thank you for posting about this, b/c I am one of those pple that tends to say the stupid "gee you look like crap!" and I honestly never thought much about what I was saying until now...

And I really dont mean it as an insult, but as a " you should be home taking care of yourself".... But I will remember in the future that a positive remark is more helpful and welcoming when one is already feeling ill...
I am glad that you are feeling better.... </font>