Illegal Toilet,

I'm sorry you feel that way too. I fight those same kind of feelings a a lot, and it's so difficult!

So let me ask you something that I've been thinking about myself. . .

Think for a minute about the people who have hurt and rejected you. . .however many there are. Did you do it? OK, now ask yourself this. . . "How many people would have to tell me that I'm a good and likeable person who deserves good things, before I would believe it?

What if an equal number of people rejected you and liked you? Which ones would you believe?

What if twice as many people liked you than those who rejected you? Then would you believe you were decent, likeable, and worthy of happiness and good relationships?

I'm just curious what you will say. I know what I'd say.