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Originally Posted by chickenpotpie6701
I think you are reading WAYYYYY to into that comment. ALL couples fight, whether it happens right away or a year or so once the lovey-dovey part of it calms down. Even if you see someones side you can be in a bad mood and he's hyper and won't stop talking and rambling on and talking loud and you have a horrible head ache. Most women would snap in that scenario. If I feel like you're hurting yourself, maybe from being passive aggressive and not letting your emotions free and bottling them up. There has been plenty of times me and my ex fiance forgot what the other has said. not because we dont care or love each other, but we are busy people with a lot on our minds. that's what happens in a grown up relationship sometimes lol
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Yes I agree, that is what I had said after I had typed the topic up, then I asked for opinions.
And I agree that it is normal to get into fights but I am not for them, I would walk away when a negative feeling would be overbearing. I know I would be fine after a fight but I think it's better to discuss through things after calming down if you had gotten upset, hurt, annoyed or whatever over something. NO relationship is perfect and should never be expected to be perfect.
I'm still going to asking him about couples fights though to see what his thoughts were actually. Like another commenter had said that it could be fears. There actually has been several things that he seems to be confused about me, maybe because I'm not too insecure and he has been around more insecure unhappy women.
Thank you for your comment.
