I love that story Pat!
I think we have very similar taste in men.
My ex-boyfriend only showered about once a week. That probably sounds gross to some people, but he never had B.O. He just smelled like booze and cigarettes... guess I found that manly. He never brushed his hair either.
The guy I'm seeing now showers everyday (I'm getting used to that

) but he's still delightfully manly... has a nice beard... which is (from my perspective) an added bonus when it comes to receiving oral pleasure.