My daughter and my husband know. Unfortunatly they both added to it since they would both fly into unexpected rages. My husband is better now, but doesn't understand that HE caused so much damage. He blames my mother and ex. They did too, but I've been with him longer than I was with them. I think a part of him thinks I'm making it up too, even though I have a diagnosis. My daughter understands the whole thing and has it too.