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Old Jun 20, 2007, 01:13 PM
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Sounds like you surely have a lot on your plate right now.

I'm glad you husband is doing well with his chemo and is on the road to recovery. That's wonderful news.

The only suggestions I can make at this time are to do exactly what is expected of you by the courts and from the Social Worker and DCYF. Keep a log of everything that is asked of you, and keep it up to date with everything you have done that they have asked you to do. Dates, times, people you have spoken to, etc.

This will show that you are willing to work to reunify your family. In most states, that's what the courts are looking for, people who are doing everything they can to rectify their past issues and provide a loving and stable home for their children. Get yourselves into some parenting classes, keep up to date on how your children at doing. It may be a long process before you get your children back so be prepared for that. Make sure you are both in therapy and or go to AA to get past your alcohol issues. Anything that you can do to show how serious you are about reunifying your family will help tremendously. This is not the time to sit back and just let things happen......because they won't happen in a positive outcome for you and your family.

I hope and pray you can all work through this. It will be hard, it will be frustrating. I'm sending you postive thoughts and strength your way!

Hugssss
J