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Old Apr 23, 2015, 11:16 PM
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I agree with Rose that this is insane.

Actually up to yesterday I thought that he is extremely remorseful and apologetic and beating himself up for what he did. I still thought it is awful but at least maybe that's why he was forgiven by you, because he was remorseful (even if fake). I was rather shocked that hd still feels no remorse. It is insane and abusive. This isn't acting like a child. That is abuse.

I said before that rather than reading articles and trying to diagnose and fix him AND his parents it would be wise to address why do YOU allow such treatment. Focus on that. Not on fixing him. And no he didn't suddenly change

I asked before what her parents say and I believe Seeya said her parents told her to divorce him.

PS I was kind of wondering about "pull you aside" comment. You two are married and do things together sleep together eat together discuss things? Or no? Pull somebody aside to express a complain is something maybe a boss and subordinate would do or a teacher and a student. Never heard such comment about married couples. You two don't sound like equal partners.

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Gavinandnikki, healingme4me, Rose76