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Originally Posted by Lauliza
Are you afraid she's too rigid and firm around out of session contact and boundaries?
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I don't think so, I prefer clear boundaries for these things....not knowing with my old T(oh my gosh, calling him oldT is soooo....final!) was worse as I worried about it so much!
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Originally Posted by ThisWayOut
It sounds like maybe the email thing/out-of-session contact thing hit a sore spot? Perhaps she had a bad prior experience (or more than one bad one)?
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Originally Posted by guilloche
and maybe ask if she had a bad experience or what was going on? :
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Oh....I completely forgot(am I the only one that does this?), but she did mention in passing a client who emailed her multiple times daily and it was something she had to stop. That explains it.
The difficulty though is that instead of just explaining that to me first, she became defensive first. I think it is bothering me because it is reminiscent of my mother. Ugh. I don't know.
I'll try to ask her next time.