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Old Apr 24, 2015, 04:40 AM
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Originally Posted by Seeyalater View Post
Yes for six years we were all one happy family. When this all happened I talked to his brother. His brother and adviced me to call the pastor that married us. The pastor is a great family friend. I called him and met with him. He tried contacting my husband and his dad. After a couple of times of the pastor trying to contact my husband he called is dad. The dad called tbe pastor and told imago stop meddling in his business. There is nothing wrong with his son other than stress at work and some rocks in his marriage. The pastor called me and said he was done trying to talk to him. He was asked to bud out. He talks to me all the time. He to is shocked with the behavior of my husband and his dad.
Now as far as his friends. He sees one almost every morning and works out with him. His other friends have stopped contacting him because if what he has done. I'm talking four of his close friends. When one of the names comes up he only has bad things to say about them and the girlfriends. My friends are all shocked by his actions and so are my parents. My parents both say he fooled them and would of never of thought he would of done what he did.
So it's not just me saying he wasn't like this. No one has seen this personality in him or it was in him and something triggered it out.
No. He has not apologized for what he did. I'm waiting for that. When I said he could of pulled me aside or sat me down. I meant he could of communicated with me. He said I wouldn't of got it.
he really believes in his mind that by not cooking everyday I was a horrible person. When I asked to help match socks I was a nasty person. Whenn I asked him to shut the dresser drawers after he got something out he really thinks I was a raging with.

Honestly you will never know what person thinks or believes in their mind. You only know what he says and does. It is not even important what is his mind. What's important is what you want from life and from marriage.

You said you two are kissing, hugging and holding hands after he let you back, yet apparently he never apologized! It is shocking. Please focus on what's ok for you.

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