I have 3 children with my ex, and am now with a new partner. My ex sees the children everyother weekend which is what he agreed on but he doesn't ever give me a time of when there back and will sometimes text and say he's not having them at all because he's choosing to work instead. My new partner gets really angry about this and has suggested that I stop the ex seeing the kids until he can give me a written agreement of arrangements so the kids aren't being messed around and there's consistency in their lives. My new partner has a child with his ex but doesn't get to see her because his ex refuses to let this happen. I don't want to stop my kids seeing their dad but my partner gets into a range if I don't agree with him slams doors shouts at me and just makes me feel like uv gone against him by allowing them to go even though there dad is unreliable. I've agreed to see a solicitor so his access is down in writing but have still allowed the children to go until this happens because I don't want them to miss out. It really pisses me off when he lets them down or when I'm waiting around for hours for them to be dropped off. My partner flies into a rage if I don't do things his way and agree with what he says. This happens everyother weekend and I'm left feeling like shite because of his mood