I must be strange but when I get that long "therapist" gaze I find myself irritated. Warmth is great of course, but there's a point where it becomes too much for me and it turns me off. I'm not sure what it is, but I think I find it a little patronizing. It also probably means that the person is a little too touchy-feely for my liking. It reminds me of the "therapist voice" that also drives me nuts.