Its impossible to know when and where a relationship is going to happen, for me its almost always been when I've least expected it. I wouldn't completly lose hope in the "one horse town" you never know

As for your current relationship, how much of your first post have you told to her? To me it sounds like a communication issue (really common!) but having ASD can make those problems a lot more difficult on both ends, especially when it comes to the unspoken/nonverbal stuff- which i think she should understand being in an intimate relationship with you. That said, i think if you just asked about why things have seemed "off" lately, and told her how you feel - it could open the door to for you to resolve the conflict. Otherwise i think the likelyhood of you guys drifting apart is pretty high unless she decides to come back to you on her own.

I hope the best for you and if you need advice on what to say im sure anyone on here would be willing to help you, or feel free to PM me



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