Boundaries differ from one T to another, but regardless of this, that reaction was outrageous! My T and I have a slight boundary ‘transgression’ as standard in session, but we always talk openly about boundaries. If my T feels uncomfortable with something he may say "no", but will do so calmly and explain why not and suggests a more ‘therapeutic’ alternative. You should tell T how her reaction made you feel, it was well out of order.
Good luck xxx
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