At least it is easy to visually recognise your perfect match. It is so much harder if you have to find out about others personality, life goals and sense of humour etc, etc, etc.

And think of the cost - the amount I spent on flowers, restaurants, chocolate, tickets to the opera, romantic weekends to Bognor and Paris; it would have been cheaper to go for a mail-order bride from those dodgy East European websites.

Don't knock being focussed on looks - if it works for you go with it.