It's probably not healthy to read too much here, but I do it anyway.

I do think this was totally his issue and not mine. I did see another therapist (a decent one I think) for several months last year until he moved away. But we didn't talk about the old therapist or the unethical behavior.

I think people blame because of fear and stigma and when you're the "crazy" one it must be your fault somehow. Whatever. I just refuse to accept the blame anymore. I am also not blaming myself anymore. Most therapists disgust me.