I don't expect a T to give me advice per se, but I would never continue to go to a T that just sits there while I ramble. I especially hate it when a T expects you to be the only one talking for an hour. That's not helpful to me. In fact, it makes everything worse. They're supposed to be experts. I'm pretty specific about things. I'll say I have this problem X, and then, I'll ask what is typical approach to getting rid of/reducing X.