I guess I would say that nothing specifically that you said makes me think you're shallow. Most people I have met want some sort of physical attraction. It's prob better to be honest about it. You don't want to end up regretting being with someone b/c of looks later. That being said I have found that even physical attractiveness to someone can change day to day and if I tell them what I like they can look appealing every day if they want to. So when you do meet someone you can talk to them about it and say something like hey I really like the way you look when _____. Be a little careful about that so you don't offend them but all in all it had actually created mutual trust and feeling of being wanted in the past for me as long as the other person understands you still like them. The other thing too I've found is changing taste over time annnd finding people attractive by spending time with them, that on paper (or in theory if that makes more sense) I didn't think I would be attracted to. So I guess my final thought here is you shouldn't feel bad if you are feeling that way. Your thoughts seem pretty normal to me. And being honest is better in the long run, you can always change your mind about what you want later.