I'm working on this in counseling.But it's really hard. I just want to be liked.muse and selfy thanks for the support. Muse i have talked to my family so many times. But they are in denial that they ever verbally abused me.My mom still do's it every now and then.She tells me im going to hell because i don't attend church and i go to rock concerts.Plus that i will never get a man as long as i'm a tom boy.So i avoid most of her phone calls.