Yes, I do have boundaries with them. That was unusual for him to say all that, it was kind of strange. He already apologized. I know he has a lot of problems but that is no excuse. I do tell both of them that they are not allowed to speak to me in such a manner. Yes they were half raised by my dad after my divorce and he was never very respectful towards women. I guess I dropped the ball during that time and now it costs me.

I am feeling better tonight, not like I might implode at any moment. It was like I was in the very beginnings of acute withdrawals from benzos, incredible. I came very close to taking a small amount but refrained.

Tomorrow is moving day! Can't seem to bargain my way out of it...yuck!!! Wish me luck.

Thanks Christina for your thoughts.