(((((((Jan))))))) Standing up for myself last week made me so sick I had panic attacks and had to take a day off work.

So I have an idea of how you feel -- but it sounds like it needed to be done. Good job on taking care of yourself. I guess I finally got lucky -- my next-door neighbor (it's a side-by-side duplex) is a state trooper and seems to be fairly normal

and my landlady lives in the house next door and is 75 and harmless. But I certainly have had my share of crappy neighbors. It's one of the perils of apartment life, I think.
Let us know how everything goes tomorrow. I'll be thinking of you.
Love, Candy