I don't need a man to support me. Even when I was married and when I lived with a man I always worked (minus short time right after I had a baby)

But at the same time I wouldn't date a man who needs to be fully supported. The reason is that due to budget cuts my salary barely allows me to pay bills, in fact I need a second job because I am having hard time with bills.

I simply cannot afford to take financial care of a man and if that's something I must do I'd rather be alone.
I am not selfish of materialistic I just cannot afford to support two people on one income

Now if he does work just not making much then it is fine! I don't make much either. Or if he temporarily not working then it is fine too. But taking on A man with permanently no income wouldn't be something I can do. Just can't afford.

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