Yup and you have a choice too: what you are willing to accept. I understand staying in marriage and trying to work on it but they aren't working on nothing, he is being a jerk and wife is ok with it. That's not working on marriage. That's being abused. Life is too short. It doesn't matter what diagnosis you assign to him, jerk is a jerk.

No pastors or in laws or our advice is going to fix what he isn't willing to change. None of us can make him into a good husband.

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