A male therapist has been better for me. However, I once had a female p-doc that my ex-husband used to see. She was so caring and really went out of her way to start working with me individually.

I had moved far away and she even did phone sessions. I was so young back then I didn't realize (until now) that she was trying to form a relationship with me.

I have issues with my mom and my dad. Sometimes I don't even know which one is worse. My T and I have not covered my mom and that is because I don't feel the need to. For some reason she and I never bonded and I couldn't care less. However, maybe it is affecting my female relationships so I probably should add it to the list.

I really think you might have to do some sessions with each type and see who you feel comfy with.