Thanks to all of you who posted on here. Started seeing a therapist 2 weeks ago, she suggested I was in a "relationship" with a sex addict for 4.5 years. (Didn't go to her for help with this, but she insisted this is where my problem rests.. which now I am starting to believe her.. ha) Anyway, I have read a few articles and I am codependent/love addict. I fit everything to a "T". Im sure my therapist recognized it.. but, I will discuss it with her next appt. I feel like a weight's been lifted just because it has a "name". And, thanks to you for posting on this thread maybe I can start to heal by reading that book. I am going buy it as soon as I am done on here.