(((((Christina)))))) You're not a pest. As with so many others here, I've been thinking about you, but haven't PMd to say so -- sorry

-- too wrapped up in my own shite, I guess. I'm often told I'm self-absorbed -- probably true.
Change definitely sucks. I'm failing miserably at the changes in my life right now, so am certainly no one to be giving advice about it. PM if you want to vent, though.
Love, Candy